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It was very soon after, that I
discovered yoga, and since that time have been working
towards the fulfilment of that dream.
In planning this book, I wanted its message to be
accessible to non-yogis, yoga beginners, yoga adepts and
yoga teachers; non-mothers, becoming mothers, new
mothers and previous mothers; the healthy, the
unhealthy; the young and the not so young. To encompass
that vision I have therefore included my knowledge and
experience across a wide range of areas and levels. I
apologise to the non-yogi or the yoga beginner who may
at times find the amount of theory and detail
overwhelming. Like a smorgasbord, the opportunity exists
to either nibble at those topics you hunger for from
time to time, or to start at the beginning and gradually
partake of a whole meal!
Controversies Surrounding Modern
Childbirth
I am acutely aware that many of the
subjects dealt with in the book are highly
controversial. For each and every topic addressed there
exist many varying professional and lay opinions, as
well as widely conflicting research and personal
experiences. And at one level, my own writings merely
add another set of ideas, beliefs and experiences to
this ocean of dialogue. But it is not the theoretical
nor factual contents of this book which I believe to
hold the most value for the reader. Rather, it is each
person's discovery of truth for themselves through
life-enriching experiences which ultimately shows the
way. And this is what yoga has given me as well as many
others - a way to self-realise what matters most, what
works best, and how to find the truth of any situation
already inherent in that situation.
Whilst some areas of discussion may
challenge existing views and strongly criticise the
status quo, it has not been my intention to present any
one perspective without acknowledging the benefits of
another. I do not mean to take unconditioned sides
between conventional and alternative, hospital and
homebirth, allopathic and naturopathic, or secular and
religious approaches. I also endeavour to differentiate
between my own opinions, beliefs and experiences; the
opinions, beliefs and experiences of others; studies and
research; and the age old universal truths of yoga,
motherhood and life itself. I hope that the discussions
and the advice offered may help to promote a
reintroduction of the spiritual values of birthing,
irrespective of religious or medical perspectives. Above
all, I did not want to write a book "preaching to
the converted" - the yogis, homebirthers, or
alternative lifestylers like myself. Rather, I hope that
the book may reach a wider
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audience, not usually exposed to such
ideas.
Personally, I have become somewhat
disillusioned with and frustrated by the current debates
in medical science, feminism, midwifery, and homebirth
movements revolving around “issues, rights and
responsibilities”, For some, reclaiming the rights and
rituals of natural womanhood has become a “feminist
issue” where the emphasis is on things far removed from
the immediate and specific needs of the pregnant
woman. For example, in the on-going debate about the
pros and cons of natural verses medically managed birth,
the focus seems to be shifting more and more away from
the intrinsic simplicity of birthing. Rather than deeper
political dilemmas to contemplate, I believe that those
who care should be offering women practical solutions
and satisfying the pregnant woman’s needs for holistic
health management and real birthing choices.
My own standpoint when it comes to rights and
responsibilities is that any woman in our society
already has the right to become educated about her body,
to look after herself, and to choose much of her own
birthing destiny long before pregnancy. Whilst there is
admittedly a mainstream shortage of early education,
media support, and community mechanisms to provide these
needs, that right and those opportunities nevertheless
exist.
The main reason for the dearth of progress in these areas, as I
perceive it, is the inability of women themselves,
individually and collectively, to whole-heartedly take
on responsibility for their reproductive outcomes.
Rather than delegating it to others, good health and the
experience of birthing naturally is a right each woman
must work towards, not just expect unsolicited.
There is now a growing number of women who are doing
this very thing. What this has required on their part
is:
• firstly an awakening of dissatisfaction with the
status quo;
• secondly, the assumption of
responsi-bility for
changing their
situation;
• thirdly, the will to act; and
• fourthly, practical ways to actually create the
desired changes, both within themselves and in their
lifestyle.
Whereas the first factor is usually cir-cumstantial and revelatory,
the subse-quent ones are matters of choice and
application. It is in these areas that yoga can greatly
assist.
Preceding taking up the solutions which yoga offers, I
see the need for better education – of the holistic,
spiritual kind – as paramount in a woman's
early life. In our families, we must start
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